Struggle doesn’t define your story — but it can shape your strength.    

  Cristi Bundukamara lost three of her children and nearly lost herself.  

Her story — and the method she created to survive it and thrive in spite of it — is yours, free.

   FREE copy of Pain & Purpose by Dr. Cristi Bundukamara 

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How this story might shift something in you  

😌 Relief in finally feeling understood

Reading someone else’s unfiltered pain — not prettied up or “wrapped in a bow” — helps readers say, “Oh. I’m not the only one.” That’s healing in itself.

🪞 A mirror for their own story

 Even if you haven’t lost a child, the emotional themes of heartbreak, disorientation, guilt, and survival are universal. The book helps people recognize their pain through Cristi’s honesty.

🗣️ Language for what they’ve been feeling but couldn’t express

Sometimes you don’t even know what you’re feeling until someone else names it. This book gives shape to the fog — and that brings clarity.

🗺️ A framework for making sense of the chaos

The Mentally STRONG Method offers more than insight — it gives readers a process. A way to think differently, not just feel differently.

🫣 Permission to stop hiding their pain

Cristi’s vulnerability gives readers the quiet courage to stop pretending and start engaging with what’s really going on.

🫸 A nudge toward your own purpose

The title itself is a gentle reminder: your pain doesn’t disqualify you. It may actually be the thing that shapes your purpose.